Holding the Light

SHOW NOTES
You have the ability to change a relationship even if you are the only one interested in doing so. You create changes in relationships by holding a different space. You can be received by others in a whole different way. It is not about trying to control what someone else is doing. I talk about how everyone has a calling and the importance of honoring our own calling and doing the same for others.

Relationship Habits and the Power of Non-reaction


SHOW NOTES

  • Relationships are not about what you do together but how you feel together.
  • There is a lot of power in non-reaction for changing relationship habits.
  • The world gets smaller and smaller if you decide you don’t want to go out because of the way others make you feel.
  • What are we here really to learn and teach?
  • TED Talk by a teen about what he wants to be when he grows up. It is simple, he wants to be happy.

 

Relationships and Focus: Creating Satisfying Relationships

SHOW NOTES

  • Feeling good is powerful and it is the place you must start to improve your relationships.
  • You will immediately feel heightened freedom and energy when you release others to their own creation and focus on yours.
  • People benefit from being around your positive energy almost as much as you do by allowing it!
  • You can be an example of a person who focuses on the positive as you go through your life feeling good and being secure in your personal power most of the time.
  • Make room for inspired action in all your relationships. Action that will result in new and better interactions and connections with others for you to enjoy.
  • It’s so important to be disciplined about what you are focusing on about other people in order to have satisfying relationships.
  • Don’t let your mind obsess about how someone is so awful and don’t dwell on those things that you find annoying about someone else. Instead, cut them a break…no, cut yourself a break!
  • You have to control your focus to feel good. In fact, it is the only thing you do have control of. You can’t control others or at-the-moment situations you find yourself in, but you can control what you think about and what you give your attention to.
  • Every accomplishment and thing of beauty comes about because somebody believed in somebody. Believe in those around you. Believe in the best of them to see more of it.
  • And believe in yourself and your ability to keep your focus on what you enjoy and want to see more of…then look for it.